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Thursday, July 23, 2009 @ 8:13 PM




What the hell? My blogger cant work and my whole laptop is laggy. Shouldnt have updated my laptop. Give me lots of problems now.

One question to ask, how many of us had difficulties completing a project due to free-loaders in our group? However we do not have these free-loaders complaining to the tutors to cover up their asses, do we?

I feel so sorry for a very good friend of mine. As soon as he thought all projects was submitted, his group mates or should I say, free-loaders gave him a new set of problems. Which was saying he had high expectations of them, not telling them how to improve their parts and even better still accused him of using vulgarities on them. Classic!

1) Having high expectations is the RIGHT thing

Having high expectations means that your group member thinks well enough of you to contribute to the assignment and that's why. Also, even if you dont want to have good grades, please consider for people who really want to get good grades for their GPA. I can totally imagine their GPA, maybe a 2.5 or 2 or probably less than 1? I am not trying to stereotype people here but my perception of people getting such GPA in my course is they are those type of people who wants to pass ONLY. Fine, I am biased and I am not changing my stand.

Okok, maybe a guy in that group score above 3.0 for GPA but hello?!?!? A 3.1?!!??! (I think is around that figure) Still dare to show off say top 30 in cohort. I can feel my chin dropping from 12th floor to like dont know basement level what. Even my mediocre GPA of 3.3 was not even in top 30 and yours could? Even so in terms of participating in extra activities, I dont believe I can lose out to him. Kns, still dare to go around showing off his less than mediocre GPA (when mine was mediocre). Sibei BHB can? Pui! And then what gives him the rights to throw his temper at my friend, screaming and banging his fists on the table? 本小姐 here lost my temper but still I did not bang my fists on the table and make a fuss out of it.

My friend was trying to improve the report and give you a better grade ok? In my opinion, you should treat him to a feast or better yet, a 2 days spa retreat for all the sleepless nights he had to endure to do a good report. No brains one leh this guy. I think when we go out for internship, he will most probably lose face and drag the whole LRM cohort together with him, leaving our juniors with not much choices of intership due to him. Oh, I feel very sorry for our future juniors as their senior lost his temper during internship.

2) Telling you guys how to improve macham never tell like that

I am quite guilty of this I admit becoz when I received a report which was less than acceptable, I will edit it myself and not telling them about it. But you think about it, if you can submit a very lousy piece of work (tempted to use the term, rubbish, but shall refrain from doing so), what difference would it made if my friend had told you on how to improve? The probability of you giving back the same piece of work is damn high right? Admit it. I doubt much considerations will even be taken into place and not much improvements will be made lor. 鸡蛋! Your fault also can say until is my friend's. Like that also want to go complain to tutor and push all the blame to my friend. Win already lor.

3) Accusing him of scolding vulgarities

My friend once put on his msn pm, 'Dont fucking test patience'. Also never say is you what? Though we know who it is insinuating to, I can totally understand with my friend. He was doing all the parts and receiving rubbish lousy piece of work to add on to his burden. I can always say,

Dont fucking feed me tomatoes
Dont fucking add to my emotional distress

I am not insinuating anyone unless they felt guilty about it lah. It's psychology (I think). Reading this nature of message will trigger their brains (do they even have one?) to think and it will process until they are so sure that it's them. Conscience people. They are guilty of that!! They still had the cheek to complain about this. Yup, another reason to prove their guilt. Dumb!!

Oh and did I mentioned that they are very bitchy? No? Ok here goes. My friend even got threatened by one male friend of theirs. Actually, my friend scolded one of the girls until she cried and yup, little innocent her went to complain to their egoistic male friends. Wow! Typical ah lian lor, cannot fight and then call for backup. You think lah, my friend said her work because it was lousy (not rubbish)and she cried. o.O? Ok lor, girls cry means win liao then guys come along act macho and threatened my friend. This guy also damn kpo lah. Unless he is jio-ing one of the girls, no point act big and everything right? Macham they will fall for you like that. Hello? They are using your sympathy!! Welcome to the dark side of girls. Another act big but no brain guy.

Seriously, crying in front of the tutor and expecting my friend to listen to the tutor and apologise will not work for my friend. I know him too well. The only thing he could apologise for (and that's the only thing) is maybe usage of vulgarities though I wont apologise if I were him. The next thing he should apologise to is himself, for grouping with such less than competent people and potentially causing his GPA to drop.

Useless!! Occupy space in the course and in TP and TAS.

PS: Me not mentioning their names is purely becoz I dont want them to become group-less in future projects and then complain about me to the tutor. Not becoz I hum ji ok?

UPDATE: I think my friend is ok with them already but I am still not. *Plants a big L on the forehead*




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